Without the true God, things like art, music, theater, etc. have no meaning or purpose; just atomic matter in motion. Happiness is an illusion without God.

“if one believes in them they become true” No. We must believe in true things if we want to be happy; our belief does not make things true. Let’s not delude ourselves. If we believe we can make something true just because we want to believe in it, then we will make ourselves unhappy. Reality will not oblige us.

The most profound and sublime kind of love is found in Christian love, total self-giving, self-emptying, and self-sacrifical love, in and through suffering.

It is said that one can only love if one loves itself and others, the whole world, otherwise one couldn’t say truthfully that one loves at all. I think it is logical and true and while not loving yourself and maintaining your independence you can’t be able to love, you’ll confuse love with some other emotion or so.
But it’s only what I think and anyone could understand and see “love” as they want to, I don’t think that with such pure and beautiful and on the other hand destoying emotion one could say that someone has interpreted it the wrong way. I think it has so many interpretations and if one believes in them they become true.
So I don’t think that there is only one true interpretation or understanding of love, which you, Tony, wanted to say.

I have boyfriend who have met for five years.. I love him and want to make an effort to faith.
But sometimes I feel emotion from a stranger. That’s why I google about the closer and here. From your insight, I can get the answer.
Indeed, thanks.
I want to see you in the heavens. Bless you.

I’m not going to give up anything. We’d all be much happier in a world where everyone loves each other rather than uses each other. It’s not about what I personally like or don’t like. One doesn’t need to travel the world to learn what love is; one merely needs to see and respond to the inherent dignity in the people already around us.

The science of human biology is very much on my side. In the sexual act, man and woman biochemically bond because of oxytocin and vasopressin. It is harmful to engage in an act that naturally bonds you together with another person in a powerful way and then unnaturally break that bond; it’s cruel to do it deliberately in full knowledge of the consequences. The marriage bond should come before this biochemical/psychological/emotional bond for the sake of happiness.

And I have a real job, thank you very much. I don’t understand why people attack other people they don’t know on the internet.

How am I so sure? Because my view of love and sex is logically coherent (internally and self-referentially) and asserts human dignity for myself and everyone else, rather than treating human beings like mere animals, sex toys, or consumer commodities to be merely bought, sold, and enjoyed.

Anyone who enjoys being used or confuses use for love has very serious psychological issues.